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Life Changing Decision - need your advice guys

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XXX-1.8T ·

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".

I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?

I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.

I decided I was going to hide behind my beetle which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my bug that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Auto One and try to repair it myself?

:beer

byronbus ·

ha, thats funny

Starbug ·

in situations like this its best to be straight, to the point and have all parties involved.
sit and spend a weekend fixing the problem, you may find that other problems are found and you can fix them too.
taking it to the repair shop just means you dont care

VWFREAK ·

Thats a pearler.lol. love your work.😀😀😀

ancientbugger ·

You're probably best to sort it out right now, don't wait for things to get worse or try to put to the back of your mind. It's not a case that if you can't see it it 's not happening.Best to front up, pull out all the carpet, interior panels and get stuck in and you never know your girlfriends other bloke might even offer to give a hand!

Desert Moose ·

My heart goes out to you :cry ......... hope the new boyfriend is a panel beater

PurpleT3 ·

Fix them both yourself, personal like. Know what I mean!

squizy ·

Costa.....once the rust starts, the relationship is surely doomed. Oh yes you can repair the rust, but deep down you know the scarring exists under the surface. You could replace the panel for a newer one, but that too could rust in time if appropriate care is not taken. 😉.

You could go for a full trade in on a different model....or heaven forbid a whole new make....possibly a Brazillian perhaps?

Squiz.....

buzzbug ·

thats tops costa

good work mate

Bugged Again ·

If you find out the rust isn't to bad an angle grinder would help

If it has spread further a chainsaw would be more appropriate
and time to move to the next project

62deluxe ·

Hmmm, DUMP THE RUSTY OLD BAG!!!!!!!:duh

Or fix her.............................. and never let her out again, especially in the rain.

BiX ·

that was awesome, everybody at work read it and loved it!!!!

Grey 57 ·

thats a classic Costa. :thumb:thumb well written mate.

You and the Beetle need to see a counsellor mate.😉

65busser ·

Shit mate, that's tuff news. My heart goes out to you and the beetle.

Andy ·

Use the GF's money to get the rust repaired properly, if the money runs out kindly tell her's it not working out anymore.
Hope the beetles like new again soon. :beer

Bizarre ·

I would replace those panels with silicon ones!

As Speedster pete says - "If it looks real - its good enough for me!" :bounce:kiss

okrasa power ·

Replace her with two girls that will keep your mind off the problem

[Edited on 28-10-2004 by okrasa power]

$2.63 homebrand baja ·

bwahaahaha.... get a professional in to do the repairs... 😉 DIY's can sometimes come back to haunt you!

penguin ·

Stop,
take a deep breath and think... what would Jared do???

Oops, sorry wrong country..... Me ahhh, that sort of thing just adds to the well loved and worn out feeling you get when you check out a body. But then again, doing some of the work yourself gives that, 'I've strayed a wee bit but he really does care and is tryign to fix it up' image a run doesn't it 🙂

Myself I'd say get a professional to do it, that way you can be out on the town while the work gets done and no one knows that it ever happened 😉

Chewy ·

I've heard that one before!!! 😉

Subject: Need help regarding a life changing decision
E. Fleming wrote:I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the street although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girl. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my bike infront of my apartment which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my bike that I noticed rust around my rear wheel pivot bolt.

Should I take it into a bike repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local bike shop and try to repair it myself?
gave me a chuckle anyway.. :blah

twoguns ·

hey costa. u been on bitswap? i was rolling on the floor. funny. gotta go the rust!

[Edited on 28/10/2004 by twoguns]

XXX-1.8T ·

Guys i love yous

Ive recieved alll these u2u's saying ill help u with the rust etc etc

It was a joke and my girls not cheating on me thats why im marrying her in March (sorry dub chix 😉 )

Anyways i love her heaps (and she loves shazza)

:beer

barls ·

in that case dont let that one go mate

pyr0 ·

lmao famn that was good 😀

well put anyone who doesnt appreciate that doesnt have a sense of humor :bounce

himmell ·

Not true!, bugger, I was going to recommend covering both problems with a few coats of POR-15,

BenettonVW ·

LOL

Nice one little buddy..:P

jenz58 ·

...what a crack up....you had me wondering there 4 a minute..I know how personal we can get on here...BUT u Costa...this was a first.... lol

.....is there rust ....was the intrigue a planned lead up to it....

Hey how cool....wedding in March .... sweet...I hope you let her in on this joke or else you may be paying 4 it... 😀

PHAT BUG ·

Costa, thats some funny shit!

mscabrio ·

That was funny .... I was actually STARTING to feel sorry for you .....

Thanks for the laugh !!!!

Hope Shazza isn't really rusting !

Y2K ·

Costa, when you're up for ya bucks week, Greg might fix it for ya.( He's a panel beater remember):thumb