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Three things you didn\'t know about me

https://forums.aussieveedubbers.com/threads/35957/three-things-you-didnt-know-about-me

vanderaj 路

I hang out on various forums. This thread came from one of them. Try to find it! 馃檪 An easter egg to the person who finds the correct forum (this thread topic is pretty common in Google)

1. I have quite bad insomnia, and often do with as little as three (or less) hours sleep a day.

2. I have posted many confessions to http://grouphug.us. I can't stop.

3. I am a terrible procrastinator. I don't know anyone is quite as good at procrastination as me.

What are your three things?

Andrew

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

MickH 路

Hmmm....Andrew, I really hope you are not person 349045750.....on grouphug....

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by Mick H]

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by Mick H]

ColumBUS 路

ooh ooh! is it

www.andrewisfreakingmeout.com???

VWFOOL 路

no.2

vanderaj 路

Mick H wrote:Hmmm....Andrew, I really hope you are not 349045750.....
luckily, no. So what are the three things we don't know about you? 馃檪

Andrew

ps. Almost all of my confessions have been true. I'm not telling which ones they are, mainly cos I can't remember all of them.

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

vanderaj 路

Kroozin_Kikko wrote:ooh ooh! is it

www.andrewisfreakingmeout.com???
That's not even a real domain. 馃槈

Andrew

jenz58 路

I can procrastinate real good....too good....:jesus

OK I look at number 2...was going to bed though....

bugeyedbabe 路

what r the three things we DON"T want to know about u....

oh...i know he has cats...

lost 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:what r the three things we DON"T want to know about u....

oh...i know he has cats...

and he doesn't know much about Italian pizza

bugeyedbabe 路

and speaks a strange language late at night

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:what r the three things we DON"T want to know about u....

oh...i know he has cats...
The cats are quite safe.

1. Like onions for their effects. See 3.

2. I like lesbians. A lot. More than is required.

3. I like dutch ovens of my own making

Andrew

vanderaj 路

lost wrote:and he doesn't know much about Italian pizza
Which sort? The sort you get around Rome (thin crispy base - yum), or the sort like we get here (which I believe are more the Naples style?)

Andrew

jenz58 路

Hmmmmm

... some of these confessions turn me on ... Dat one???

or i want sex, over and over again

or....I jack off in my socks and throw them in the hamper to be washed


Maybe....i secretly wish the entire planet would just explode into nanagins...that's kinda your talk Andrew

...the nanagins bit that is

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by jenz58]

bugeyedbabe 路

okay number 2 worried me...since ur a guy...

frenzix 路

i just vomited blood

jenz58 路

ok are your confessions on just that one page....?

God I'll have to go put some clothes on....looks like a long night puzzling here and it's cold

$2.63 homebrand baja 路

I am clean living and have no vices whatsoever, i live a very boring, sanitized life.

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by $2.63 homebrand baja]

bugeyedbabe 路

rotflmfao:P

jenz, do u often check this forum naked??

akean1 路

i know i do :P:P:P
oh about vomiting .......http://www.putfile.com/media.php?n=MadU-noodles

squizy 路

Do you like Man Bites Dog, satirical pop for the discontented?

jenz58 路

A lot..... lol

I have a big window, no curtains and lights on so the peeps can see in :blush

Sorry...am I on the true confessions forum :P

akean1 路

i loved man bites dog, especially the bit where he scares the lady to death with a huge yell at her

bugeyedbabe 路

oh i used to do that jenz, but the peeps complained to the police about indecent exposure..

knew it got bad when the peep reached in and HE pulled the blind down!

jenz58 路

We might need an exorism here before long....we had an appearance 馃槈 馃榾

bugeyedbabe 路

i need more than that ....

Starbug 路

this is possibly the strangest thread i have read all day.

KEEP IT GOING!!!:bounce:bounce:bounce

jenz58 路

rotflmfao ....with tears rolling out of eyes so can't see....

bugeyedbabe 路

i am..

isn't that where they're supposed to be...

their got holes for my ears....:thumb

jenz58 路

Never did hear back from Andrew...are we looking at other pages...there are some great confessions 馃槑

bugeyedbabe 路

wheres baja pantiess post....

bugeyedbabe 路

i think we're gonna get busted...and it's andrews fault....he started with the lesbians

jenz58 路

OK I smell procrastination in this

My biggest phobia is calling up people on the telephone. It sounds so stupid, but I dread picking up the phone and just dialing.
Don't get me wrong, I love to actually talk to people on the phone- it's just the initial act of calling them up that I can't stand.

bugeyedbabe 路

ohhh me too..

i even send as many emails or u2us i can before i call.

i'd rather they call me....

bugeyedbabe 路

okay i wasn't agreeing to second hand undies on my head....

nto unless their washed first ...

bugeyedbabe 路

i swear, i saw another post come and go..

pls tell u others are seeing bajas post too..

otherwise i'm gonna crawl to the corner and..and wear undies on my head....and and and take some drugs until the flying post go away..

$2.63 homebrand baja 路

Oh my you are an odd lot in here ! :o

jenz58 路

You confused me for a second there....

We could do true confessions here to hot things up....well my nude thing was true...but not all the time

Well there has to be a lesbian scene in the dvd....they all have it...the guys luv it....they fantasise about 3's

Hmmmm maybe he has a couple he can lend you ...or I work with a few I'll ply them with wine...they'll be in it...you can just be the sex mistress running the show

bugeyedbabe 路

andrew did i get close...

can i have an easter egg??

or a kk donut

bugeyedbabe 路

see baja posts, then they go, and then i go what the??

bugeyedbabe 路

sex mistress woo hoo...

vanderaj 路

jenz58 wrote:ok are your confessions on just that one page....?

God I'll have to go put some clothes on....looks like a long night puzzling here and it's cold
No - there's several million confessions and mine are in there somewhere. Most of the confessors don't realise there are seven deadly sins and a multitude of lesser ones. The US types seem to prefer to stick to sexual confessions. They get boring after a while.

Reading grouphug is very carthartic. I know I'm better than the sick buggers posting there, and it makes me feel good about myself. Posting is even better as it gets things off my chest I can't say to anyone else. Except you guys, of course.

Andrew

jenz58 路

That phone call thingy back there was a cut n paste...I reckon it one of Andrews...

Must admit I'm the same though...tlak for hours once on the phone but take so long to get around to dialling...weird stuff

bugeyedbabe 路

and if any guys from here were on it, would guarntee mega sales..

like they have to buy them as proof their the porn stars they thought they were...

like 'honey, guess what i did today.."

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:okay number 2 worried me...since ur a guy...
Most guys like lesbians. A lot.

But I cross that line and then some. I don't know why I like 'em, cos I know deep down, I'm not part of the action, but you know...

I'm still waiting for other people's "3 things..."

Andrew

jenz58 路

Hmmmm....I must have been from the US in a past life :blush

bugeyedbabe 路

okay andrew what else do u confess too..

this could be good for later blackmails..

Do u wear womans shoes in private??
perhaps ur wearing their panties on ur head...apparently the holes aren't for ears...

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:andrew did i get close...

can i have an easter egg??

or a kk donut
Nup. Not close. Keep looking.

Andrew

ps. Most of my confesssions are of a naughty nature. The sort I'd delete here if they had piccies. 馃檪 Honestly, I've tried finding mine, and I can't, so I doubt you folks can find my confessions on group hug.

bugeyedbabe 路

did ya know I'm short fat and ugly..and doing a dvd...

bugeyedbabe 路

how old r u andrew??

bugeyedbabe 路

and andrew...the lesbian thing...the same reason as every other guy...

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:okay andrew what else do u confess too..

this could be good for later blackmails..

Do u wear womans shoes in private??
perhaps ur wearing their panties on ur head...apparently the holes aren't for ears...
If I gave you my "shit sheet" (as it's known in Canberra*), you couldn't blackmail me as everyone would know. And plus, part of the delight of getting to know someone is digging this stuff up anyway.

Andrew (who is still waiting for someone to post their 3 things)

* this is the correct term. Pollies and their apparatchiks "background" journos and other pollies with shit sheets, like "so and so was caught drink driving whilst disqualified" etc. These things are used to kill someone's political career but can backfire.

bugeyedbabe 路

andrew we're all so stuck on urs'....

would have been better to have
'the three things i didn't want u to find out about me....."


cause we found three of urs....

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:how old r u andrew??
How old do you want me to be? 馃檪

Andrew

ps. My age can be determined from my profile, but I'm approximately 21 ... in my head. My body is a bit older.

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

bugeyedbabe 路

ur 133828818 on group hug aren't u...

ColumBUS 路

ok three things u dont know about kikko

1. When im on my own or 1 to 1 with someone, im very, very quiet.

2. my mother is an alcoholic and my dad almost cried when i bought a 'girls car'

3. i am an actor and lead nsw to victory in the state theatresports championship

jenz58 路

bugeyedbabe...was that your 3 confessions :duh

OK I'm not game to confess big time on here cos we do all cross paths from time to time...and

I love to fantasise about ALL sorts of things....I can live in my imagination...dream

I have a fear of becoming fixed...I love to be flexible and free...and open

I have a fear of becoming old, bored and conservative

Hate taking things TOO seriously...only when it is absolutely necessary...lifes way too short

Yes I to procrastinate way too much...ARGHHHHHH

I can be intolerant of narrow minded people if they rub me up the wrong way

Oops...more that three
....I like to tease 馃槈

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by jenz58]

vanderaj 路

I haven't confessed in over a week. You will need to go back at least 40-60 pages, maybe more. I doubt you will be able to find them, but hint: search helps a lot. 馃檪

Andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

okay..for real..

1. I fought with my dad for 18 years straight, only to make peace with him the night before his death. And I was the one with him when he died.

2. My daughter was kidnapped by her father last year

3. The two things above and the worst things to happen in my life....

4. And I know enough from life to Andrews confession aren't bad...different, but not bad.

bugeyedbabe 路

should be the two thing above AREN'T the worst things to have happened in my life

squizy 路

Been trying to search Andrew. There's a few that could be you, but don't want to put something up that might be way off the mark....馃檨

squizy 路

Are you trying to write a paper at the moment Andrew?

vanderaj 路

Yeah, how did you guess? I'm writing the OWASP Guide to writing secure web applications 2.0

But this is just a thread has incredible legs on the forum I found it. 馃檪

Andrew

squizy 路

ok....

1. I lost my Dad in 2003 to Mesothelioma. Since then I've lacked career motivation and have stagnated.
2. My ex-wife makes I life hell. I wish she would go there.
3. I love my new wife, life and my family more than anything you can describe.

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:okay..for real..
Wow, compared to mine, your 3 things are in a totally different league than mine. I hope things get better (or are better) for you soon.

Andrew

jenz58 路

*big hug*

That's terrible....did you get your daughter back ..I would die...our kids are so precious ...

I was the one with my father when he died as well....I loved dad but my parents never saw who I was...or were too frighten to...could only ever tall me what they thought I should be doing...not look at my abilities and encourage me....Think it was a generation thing but it used to hurt not to be recognised for the person you are...Emotional blackmail was used as a lot of people do...but I was always too frightened to rebel...Dad was unconsious but I sat there and spoke to him hoping he could hear me

bugeyedbabe 路

i tried andrew....but darn...tehir were so many strange ppl named andrew

squizy 路

Are you 930302074?....trying to write a paper at the moment but spending too much time playing internet games?

vanderaj 路

nah, I don't play games that much. My XBox was last used around April 2003.

If I'm bored and there's nothing on the Tivo to watch, I write standards, like the OWASP stuff, or the software that runs this place. Alternatively, I make the rounds of VW and Citroen websites, slashdot, and so on and stir up trouble.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

squizy trying having ur ex kidnap ur kids..

but u know what guys...those thinsg really aren't the worst...

BUT there are so many other great things that have happened in my life.

I've had some wonderful guys enter into my life, and I remain friends with them. My girlfriends are loyal to me, and stay forever. I have a great partner. My daughter is back, and now understands why i left her dad and appreciates her life here. My eldest son is good, my youngest cracks me up and much as he frustrates me ..

My dad and I made peace, so i will never be saying ...i wish..

So in everything that is bad, u have to look for good.

daughter kidnapped, but otherwise not harmed.
had cancer, but fought and won
was attacked but not killed

see...everything bad has something positive...

now back to andrew

squizy 路

I have another confession....I'm not an insomniac and have to go to bed. No doubt my little man will call during the night.

squizy 路

I couldn't even think how hard it would be to have your daughter kidnapped. That would be awful.

The closest I've come is the shitty custody case from last year - which in some respects has the same result. I still don't see my daughter enough and it kills me inside.

Think I'll delete some stuff in the morning.

jenz58 路

...things do turn around...that's a lot to happen...kinda like me...

Sometimes I don't think I've moved very far since my husband died nearly 3 yrs ago...it takes someone outside, who maybe has been through it, to say to me that I have done a lot and achieved a lot in a short time...to me it feels like forever

Definitely have positive people around you helps so much...and being able to laugh

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah well, i have fought him, and a crap system, adn finally getting somewhere.

the order u got, it aint worth shit...did they tell u that..

mine took my daughter, i had an order, and i still had to wait 4 weeks to get her back....they knew where she was...but he just kept delaying the whole process...i got a crap judge, and the afp officer was no better.

but anyway, i'm sure one day i can tell u all about it.

squizy 路

That one paragraph Jen makes me look at you in a whole different light. You are a champion. My sister was in the same boat 3 years ago.....

squizy 路

It sure is a crap system. Would be good to chat one day about it all.

Back to Andrew....have you guys tried typing in VW in the search field?

bugeyedbabe 路

That how it is jenz...and don't worry abotu not acheiving alot anyway...sometimes it is enough just to breathe thru the day...

must be hard to have lost ur husband...

worst period was a few years back, everything hit. we lost 5 family members in 12 months...I seperated from husband, miscarried, changed jobs, was stalked, lived interstate (so I was alone)

it was horrible. I hope never to ever experience anything like it again.

bugeyedbabe 路

hey andrew, each time u confess, does it give u a new number??

bugeyedbabe 路

if it does...i think i found u...

vanderaj 路

have you guys tried typing in VW in the search field?
no I haven't. My favorite search term is "lesbian".

Andrew

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

vanderaj 路

bugeyedbabe wrote:hey andrew, each time u confess, does it give u a new number??
Yes. It hangs around forever with that number - it's all yours! 馃檪

When I first started confessing, there were no comments.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

if i got it rite would u tell me anyway???

seriously

bugeyedbabe 路

hey, i'm almost at 600 posts

bugeyedbabe 路

ya never gonna tell me if i'm rite hey andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

soon i'm gonna go to sleep and wonder and i'll be wondering

bugeyedbabe 路

and tossing and turning and wondering some more

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah 600 posts

bugeyedbabe 路

and 155 for 2day

Herbie 路

I couldnt imagine releasing my confessions,
People would know what a deviate I am.:P

bugeyedbabe 路

herbie..

we DO know what a deviate u r

bugeyedbabe 路

hey, if i had a spare motor, how much would u pay for it??

bugeyedbabe 路

saw ur offer for a trade...nice one...bet ya heaps fo friends with it to:kiss

bugeyedbabe 路

and why r u up so late??

jenz58 路

so there are some comments on the confessions...cos when I click on a number all the ones I pickare blank pages....

bugeyed...sounds like we both had a hard time round the same time...yes for me it came in a heap of things at the same time as well...not only my husband dying.....for the first time in my life I had to look after myself first...and the kids...and luckily my sisters picked up the slack on other things happening...my mother had had massive stroke and went into care.....house sold...big changes...me not working at the time either...so having to restart life really......I certainly don't compete like those around me...don't want wealth like most....so many more important things in life that people are forgetting about....

OK Andrew...I typed in lesbian earlier.....maybe one or two that was you...did a cat search as well....most had done bad things to cats...so not you....except one maybe....

Have you ever...do you....

Once they use American terminoligy I wipe them....and if they talk as a woman then wiped.....

Andrew...I love puzzles way too much...argh...nite....gotta sleep

jenz58 路

lol....you're still here too!! 馃榾

I hadn't quite gone to bed....this was such a bait on Andrews part....talk about dangle the carrot:duh

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah but i think i go tit, and he won't tell me if i was rite...

i'll just have to torture it out of him next big meeting...

i'm the stalking anderw....馃槑

bugeyedbabe 路

i know...i keep looking looking, but he won't tell me if i go it rite....

:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry

jenz58 路

I've gotta stop...going blind...

I've been satalked too...scary...always looking around you...nice it's over

Ive gotta sleep...who knows what I'll dream about tonight??!!

Nite

bugeyedbabe 路

andrew...and lesbians...eecckkk

which is why i haven't gone to bed yet...

Herbie 路

very interesting site.

bugeyedbabe 路

which one...check out the fat chick oe on samba...

cause it won't be there tomorrow....:P

bugeyedbabe 路

hows melanie??

bugeyedbabe 路

gotta go to bed....must recharge batteries

Herbie 路

Shes Good,
All worn out from the weekend.

ColumBUS 路

you know theres a late night dubbers club for midnight conversations kiddies? ur all welcome to join

jenz58 路

kikko we were too busy here.....you could have joined us in true confessions

jenz58 路

bugeyedbabe....you've gotta get yourself an Avatar....maybe a pic from that dvd your doing 馃槈

Goodness we were talkative last night...

Not even going to look for Andrews confessions this morn....leave that for a noctural activity

bugeyedbabe 路

maybe we should MAKE him join us in true confessions...kikko do u have strange desires we can help u overcome....

dodge 路

my goodness bugeyedbabe!!!!!!!!!
i go away for a day or so and come back! and you've got 600 bloody posts!!!!!!


and you think Kikko is a dribbler :P

bugeyedbabe 路

hey, i put in a supreme effort to get to that many posts....:thumb

bugeyedbabe 路

and i wanna bet the all time record set by barls...3501 in 8 months... i only got 3000 to go...馃榾

and since there are no rules on the chat being important....well.....

bugeyedbabe 路

and the other thing....how could you let a comment like ' i like lesbian' from a GUY go??

I mean seriously....馃槈

dodge 路

hey, at least all 600 of your posts weren't about that 馃槈

bugeyedbabe 路

true true...

some were to bag out kikko and barls....:thumb

squizy 路

I'm surprised you guys managed to stay up last night. I finally crashed about 2am, then the lil fella woke at 06.30.....so I'm a bit foggy. Still haven't worked Andrew out yet. Maybe he's the coffee drinking insomniac who's had a 2some with some lesbians??

Boozer 路

me:
1. Despite my username which is also my nickname. I rarely drink alcohol.
2. I'm a Zombie. Get used to it.
3. I'm a pyro-explodo-maniac.
and I hate you. Yes, YOU.

Herbie 路

1. When I was 11 I lost one of my thongs out the front of Movie world, but at that time it was just cades county scrub.
I'm not sure why this still concerns me, It just sliped off my foot, and as you can imagine, I realised straight away but a thorough search of the whole area turned up nothing, Almost like a gliche in the Matrix, or an alien abduction where they returned me minus one thong to momentarily distract me while they moved on.
Perhaps its linked to the fact that for one reason or another, I have 3 beautiful new Black leather shoes, not 3 pairs, three left shoes. it was my Right thong I lost.

2. I think most of the people who follow Dogmatic religion are too stupid or lazy to think for themselves.

3. I believe you will rarely find any new cars that will last long enough to get paid for, People are being trained to be good little consumers and soon, you wont be able to buy anything of any quality or durability, and if you look after these new cars by keeping them Garaged and clean etc, the manufacturer will just cease to provide any support for your car, If you still manage to get round this, then they will change the fuel available as to kill off your pride and joy.


Oh and of course I like lesbians too.
:kiss

E 路

1. I'm not gay despite popular opinion.
2. As above (dogmatic religion) but far more encompassing to include those who readily accept societal conventions
3. I'm awesome.

Boozer 路

you're mean.:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry

jenz58 路

....well ....just so long as you weren't taking off of peoples feet as they sat on the train....climbing under tables in restaurants..... visiting the local mosque or temple.....or the Japanese bath house down thee road....I don't really see the problem

What you do secretively is OK ..... it is for a good cause.....nurturing undervalued right shoes...a noble pursuit ....

Others just might not agree as they look frantically for that right shoe before work...only then realising how important the shoe really is to them....but too late they should never have favoured the left...it's their bad karma ...shit happens :sandrine

jenz58 路

booze you stretched d page!!! Stop crying!!! :jesus

bugeyedbabe 路

morning jenz....

ready for the kombi shot?馃槈

bugeyedbabe 路

i love lesbians too...

just not in that way...:kiss

and boozer, ur a meany...a big meany pooh bum breath!
i'm gonna go cry in my corner now
:cry:cry:cry:cry:cry

jenz58 路

Yes.....ready!!!

I'm sure all the peeps will be down at the beach or local pool while the sun shines....so they want see

I don't have a prob with lesbians work with a couple...and a couple of gays....we have the most wicked talks...very educational and a good laugh...Had the partner of a gay friend asking me what a heterosexual relationship was like....we had the guys at the next table listening ...very rude of them lol

Doug Sweetman 路

Well, this thread has just destroyed an hour of my working life.




Thank you all 馃檪

I would confess a few things, but unfortunately, my tag on here is the same as my name in the phone book.......... maybe I need a rebirth ? Nah.



I can empathise with a few of the things Bugeyedbabe and Jenz have been saying, I lost my grandfather last year, he was always my hero and role model. 2 weeks after my grandfather died, we miscarried after spending 12 months trying to get pregnant ..... talk about a double whammy.

But, while I dont wholly agree with the saying 'whatever doesnt kill you only makes you stronger', you certainly can learn from even the worst experiences in your life and it can make you wiser and expand your horizons sometimes.

Infertility is a horrible rollercoaster to ride, especially from the male side. It has however, made our relationship stronger, blows me away every day how strong my wife is and just makes me love her all the more.

doug

jenz58 路

Wow...that's so nice....I hope this go better next time for you..

It's so nice to hear someone say their relationship has become stronger...things are not always easy but sometimes working through the hard bits together make the relationship so much stronger...it deepens the love as you say...so sweet when it happens


I think bugeyedbabe n I might have both been through life threating situations....they do alter you....you do become stronger....material things don't matter so much..well they really never did with me ...

I tend not to look to the future so much and take each day as it comes...and try to keep faith that all will be well in the end ....with the help of a little bit of pixie dust, a few nice dreams ....luv Peter Pan 馃榾

Yes you can feel volnerable at times......but you work past it...it can be a roller coaster ride...but the dips get easier as you learn to ride them

vanderaj 路

I would tell you all, but there's another set of confessions which I really would be uncomfortable letting on.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

i think jenz right, after some serious mishaps u learn....money makes life easier, but it's not everything

i could happily go awol...just so long as i could take my family, so i could make sure they get to share the beauti of it all.

life has dips, that's just it. U have to keep moving thru it, and so long as u don't allow urself to stop for too long, it will all be okay.

As i told jenz, some days all u can do is breathe, and that is enough.

But I know there have been days when even breathing hurt.

I am sorry to here about ur heartache with the whole fertility process. And ur right, such a double whammy would have knocked the breath out of the strongest of ppl.

It is good to hear though u and wife continue to support each other throug it. I knwo sometimes u probably feel u can't talk about it with ppl, perhaps u feel it's selfish to want anyoen to focus on u, when ur wife is hurting to. But at those times, it is important u have someone to chat to, cause if ur not strong, she won't be either.

I'm not saying ignore her....what I am saying is DON'T ignore ur own needs (emotionally)

And never expext that after such life altering events that lfie will return to normal...it never will....because u change.

What happens is u create a new normal...

And jenz, this ones for u, cause I bet u did it, sometimes still do...don't panic if u reach for his aftershave in a supermarket, of hsi favorite coffee/tea/biscuit.

it happens.

But u knwo what happened with my family...we declared "days' For instance on andrews day (anniversary) we all head to ballina, in black (his favorite color) take a picture of him with us, and have a celebration of his life still. It will contineu to everyones wounds have healed

It was the only way I could of helping my family thru....by making them realise that it is okay to celebrate and remember him, and cry for the loss. each person has to take a note of their favorite moment/worst moment, what tehy still miss about the person. This is then put in the memories box...for my mum for later....when she is sad she ready read whatever one she likes...(pink good, black bad, blue what we miss...


We do it for dad too.

hope it helps....

bugeyedbabe 路

don't just get sad in the loss, celebrate what time was given...

and doug, it's ur choice...if that baby meant so much to u, then allow urself to acknowledge that, and don't let other dictate that you 'should be over it already'

allow the pain, but remember the great things too.

It is a bittersweet experience, but one u have to work thru, otherwise u can't move on. u get stuck in that moment of pain, and it overwhelms u.

squizy 路

Every tear you shed and every word you speak of those no longer here, makes the pain that little bit easier to bare.

dodge 路

this is turning out to be such a sad thread :cry

Doug Sweetman 路

Shite. This is one thread I should be reading at home 馃檪 why is my monitor all bleary ? oh, hang on wipe the eyes, there it is , all better 馃檪

You know I didnt really expect such strong response, its incredible how close the people on this forum get - esp given that most of us never actually meet. Thanks for all the kind words people.

What hurts most for me is the continuous struggle to be able to support my wife in a battle that I cant influence ? if that makes sense. I cant take an active part in the treatment, I can only try and support when things dont work, and try and keep positive and be strong. I only wish that my wife could find this sort of support as easily as I can - the clinic we go through is not strong in counselling quality in my opinion.

As an Engineer, I live my working life solving problems. It gets ingrained into the way you run your life, and the way you approach your challenges. Its absolutely impossible to explain what it is then like to be hit with a problem like this, where you get to the highest level of treatment and then its in the hands of the gods. Nothing more you can do...... you're in a cycle daze and the world stops for you. You realise all of a sudden that 6 months have gone by without you doing anything for yourselves, its unreal.

Its actually spooky sometimes, to get so wrapped up in things that you lose track of the rest of your life.

Thanks for the opportunity to have a little vent, it is cathartic and it does help.

God Bless you all.

Doug Sweetman 路

And by the way - woo hoo, now I am Major Ivan Hirst Incarnate !!!!

I have no idea how Barls and that sort of people get so many posts so quick.....

Oh, hang on, I have read this thread 馃檪

jenz58 路

you need to join in on these enlightening threads more often... lol

Goodness you are slow!! 馃檪

bugeyedbabe 路

okay, i'm got from 150 to 600 in less than a week...

as for supporting ur wife, have u worked out that sometimes there is nothing u can say, and nothing u can do to help, except hug, hand her a tissue, and take her to a movie...

and if she won't go out, then movies at home, with pizza & candle lights...don't forget the good cutlery and milk in wine glasses...

followed by a nice bath for her, with candles and scents....and no getting lucky, just cuddle her in bed...

make her feel 100%....

she feels alone, so u have to reconnect sometimes....but don't tell her ur doing it hard, just be there...

and if all else fails, get her online to us...

bugeyedbabe 路

maybe we should have a thread thats called...bad things happen to good ppl...

squizy 路

Yeah good call......except we still haven't worked Andrew's things out.

Doug Sweetman 路

Or for when you need a pick-me-up, a thread called bad things that happen to bad people... but, hang on that never happens.. hmmmm

Ta for the advice, an you are right, its usually the simple things that help the most.



Oh shit, I really am slow - I've been a member here for 2 1/2 years and only 850 posts ? eek.



I wonder if that because I only read this at work, and sometimes try to get some work done...... nahhh, must be a coincidence !

bugeyedbabe 路

how come ur only on at work??

sounds like u and wife could benefit from access at home...

bugeyedbabe 路

squizy...do u really want to know about andrews thingggyyyy???

squizy 路

um....nah.....

bugeyedbabe 路

i think he was pulling our chains...

maybe we need to hit a certain amount of posts per day, and yesterdays was low..馃榾

CoopGirl 路

I think Andrew is trying to tell us something but is too scared to just come on out and say it.

Come on Andrew, just open that door and step on out of the closet.

LMAO:P

bugeyedbabe 路

i know i know...


andrew is really...


a girl!


:thumb

h 路

oh thats nice isn it :P
but there may well be something in that 馃槈
'not that theres anything wrong with that' 馃榾

CoopGirl 路

I know what his confession is..............


He Wears Manties!!!!!


[Edited on 9-3-2005 by CoopGirl]

jenz58 路

I'm trying to get thngs done around here today...not even gunna try n search 馃榾

Goodness but I have to keep coming back to see what's happening....

Nah...tell her your doing it hard too...it's nice to know your man has feelings and what they are...men spend way too much time holding themselves together and thinking they are the only ones responsible for everything...life's shared thing....don't underestimate a woman and it becomes easier

A woman can always tell when things aren't being said....it's like a bait and we have to get to it once detected...in subtle ways to start...like leading questions 'Sweetheart is everything OK.......are you sure. *hug*.....I have a feeling that.....*pours a drink*.....do you want to talk.... 馃槈 *man runs to shed n hides taking drink*馃榾

He knows he's a gonner....

jenz58 路

I think he has been very game so far on this forum of all places.... Well we do have to sift through thousands of confessions to find his......lol

Doug Sweetman 路

LMAO. I never run to hide in the shed !!! honest.

WE are lucky, we have been together for almost 11 years (we are only 25) and know each other pretty well (most of the time). I tell her everything. Sometimes things I probably shouldnt, but thats what marriage is all about - you both lean on each other when you need to.

CoopGirl, I'm disturbed. Honestly.

And bugeyedbabe - the wifey is not keen on Hitlers Revenge 馃檪 Hence she's not on the forum, although a year or two ago, I did manage to get her on the chat room.

Doug Sweetman 路

Bugger I knew I forgot to mention something.





















Secretly, I like lesbians too 馃檪 hahahahahaha, dont we all ?

jenz58 路

...well I did try a search on cross dressing coopgirl....women panties...not yet 馃榾

bugeyedbabe 路

only if he's wearing the knickers...and not on his head like u & I baja

doug...let her know what ur feeling, just take a minute for the shock to go...men always say bad things when in shock....like why did this happen to me...(it should be US! damn it..US!)....but good to hear u work thru everything together...how it should be...

Also, I got 10 years of learning on ya... I know I know...I'm an old duck..馃檪

Jenz, can I have that drink instead...and a shed too...
:P

littlebugga 路

wow... wasn't expecting such emotion in this thread but its great how everyones supportive. alot of bad sh!t does happen, and can happen to anyone. its good to vent it and sometimes chicks just need a hug.

i hope everything is getting easier for you bugeyedbabe and jenz (and doug) i can empathise somewhat, being on a different end - the kid that got napped but thats a different story. in the end you have to learn to get by for yourself, but not by yourself... anywayzz....

pyr0 路

hhmmmm

1. my parents broke up a while back.....and i know why mum REALLY wanted to split from dad and it wasnt his fault. (im the only one besides her that knows)

2.im affrraid of the dark to a where it actually get my adreanalin pumping

3. im an adreanalin junkie, not like the people you see on TV, i mean a serious one.(and being in the dark isnt enough) if its dangerous i have to do it if theres a risk i want to do it, if my life is actually threatend by doing it ill give anything to do it.and i dont stop thinkin about it until ive done it.

[Edited on 9-3-2005 by pyr0]

~air fooled~ 路

so name your adventures pyro the maniac...

Doug Sweetman 路

I can identify with #2......

pyr0 路

fire twirling both staff and poi's
sky diving
bungee jumping
parra bungee jumping
scuba diving
diving from high places
white water rafting
knee boarding
bodyboarding in swells up to 4meters plus (anybody remember the bigt swells that hit bondi 2 years ago ? so big that there was ridable waves in the middle of the habour ?)
getting a tat because i wanted one but also cause i wanted the rush from the pain.


that all i can think of atm.

pyr0 路

oo oo and caving, you know when you go in the caves and have to swim through tunnels and stuff with torches on ur helmets.

vanderaj 路

$2.63 homebrand baja wrote:........hmmmm andrew... cats, frilly knickers and lesbians.... your really a pro footy player arent you? :blush
bwhahahahahaha! no!

Andrew

vanderaj 路

CoopGirl wrote:I think Andrew is trying to tell us something but is too scared to just come on out and say it.

Come on Andrew, just open that door and step on out of the closet.

LMAO:P
I was never really in the closet to start with.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe 路

yes u were...hiding, watching, lurcking...

we all know the truth now andrew..

and we've taken a pole, and agree...we're all secretly in love with lesbians...

bugeyedbabe 路

yes u were...hiding, watching, lurcking...

we all know the truth now andrew..

and we've taken a pole, and agree...we're all secretly in love with lesbians...

bugeyedbabe 路

oh, and baja and i wear knikers on our heads...

hers a crusty old mens...mine are yucky y fronts, age of wearer does not concern me...

jenz58 路

Andrew...you are a very big TEASE!!!! ARGH!! :P

So pyro, rob's ribbing about the pain of getting a tat was only making it more exciting for you....wait until he finds out 馃榾

....no I won't tell....we'll see if he shows here ....he may reply on other ....but we'll know 馃槈

I have a fear of scary things like heights....would love to do most of that list but think I'd die on the way down....caving would be awesome....scuba diving I can handle...amazing....would luv to hang glide...love watching .....Oh...oops another confession lol

pyr0 路

almost forgot,

i went to trapese skool and was in a show 馃槈

(you know the swing thing like meters up in the air at the circus)

[Edited on 9-3-2005 by pyr0]

bugeyedbabe 路

do u have any broken bones??

bertie_beetle 路

whoah........not everyday you get home from work, log on to Aussieveedubbers forum and the first thread you look at has Jenz58 saying -

"I jack off in my socks and throw them in the hamper to be washed":cry

pyr0 路

nope havent broken any bones.....yet.

maybe a reason i get such a thrill out of doing these thing is because i want to see how far i can push my self :jesus

also ive ridden one of those petrol powerd mountain boards at flat strap on the ROAD they do like 30km/per hr and the trucks arent very tight so its pretty crazy death wobbles (i feel off this one 馃檨 )

use to jump bmx's on dirt trails then went to skate parks but didnt like them as the varibles were considerbly lesser (such as slipping out on the dirt)

littlebugga 路

nice list pyro. how does the para bungy jumping work???

i'm guessing no. 2 is why you became a pyro huh

jenz58 路

...lol bertie....I was QUOTING....but if I was a guy I would probably do stuff like that .... but I do girly things :sandrine

Nothing like getting enthused over the search for a true confession, having a wicked partner in crime..... and then the next day people wonder what they struck!! 馃榾

I just might post a true confession on that site...but not just now while you're all looking and perhaps know my writing style.....it could be a good one ....

bugeyedbabe 路

i wanna put on in that goes something like this..

found this weird guy on a another forum...confessed he likes lesbians...thought it was like really strange, cause u know he's a guy...and then heard he was a girl, and so now i wanna get it on with him/her....just to check..what do u all think i should do???

imagine the response....馃榾馃榾馃榾馃榾

i think i need sleep...

ok, i'm really just this sick all the time

jenz58 路

lol....oh no you're back...I was about to shut down for the night cos things are SO SLOW and I need sleep tonight so I look reasonably OK tomorrow night for a hot date....

My confession is how naughty I can be...my deepest darkest secrets.....it's about my other self...the one my mother warned me about

I think that site can do with a change in topic...lol

squizy 路

Thought I'd check what's been going on - and I'm still as confused as last night and this afternoon.

squizy 路

Not time for bed Jen. The night is just starting!

jenz58 路

Tell us what's so confusing squizy?? Hmmmm...

jenz58 路

lol...I've gotta sleep in then ....better send a message not to be woken at ungodly hours...:jesus

squizy 路

Dear Dr Jen....nothing that a cathartic purge of emotion and a glass of red or three won't cure.

jenz58 路

........no squizy....it all sounds good....mmmm nice red or two a sure cure all....yes purge of the emotions so health for you and always feel SO nice after

squizy 路

I do have an opened bottle downstairs....hmm. Thinking....nah...save it for dinner tomorrow.

So you still coming to the Nats? Got a bra for Bel for the trip?

jenz58 路

Yep still coming to the Nat's...no bra for Bel....don't make me panic!! Argh....stone chips.....:cry:cry

Don't like the bra look much but I guess on a long trip good idea??

I need a red now....forget this Milo I was having to sleep...need to settle my nerves....

bugeyedbabe 路

i'm back...hey i had to grab sugar...

okay, so then confess squizy....come on....we promise not to alert to many on the forum about it..

bugeyedbabe 路

forget the stone chips, what if someone stole her...

i can see it now, some idiot tries to steal bel, and 100 avd gang up on them....

bugeyedbabe 路

u should get bel a bra...otherwise the bus boys will just keep perving on her..

wishing she was theirs

squizy 路

ha ha....I've done as much confessing on this thread than I'm going to! However I feel bad that Jen's going to worry about stonechips on Bel.

I'm sure someone can get one for you Jen - will be good for that long trip on the Hume.

squizy 路

No one would dare touch Bel!!!

Hey look at my post count. 1 more blab to go then custom title time.

bugeyedbabe 路

let me help then

reply to this..

how is ur family??

jenz58 路

come on squizy....1 more

Nah...kidding about the worry....truly

Yes those boyz had better keep their hands off of Bel...I'll lay across the front of her to stop them....that'll make them run ....damn it...

squizy 路

My family is just gold, pure gold. So for 1000, they can join me here.

Pic deleted to save the innocent... :kiss

[Edited on 9-3-2005 by squizy]

jenz58 路

Congratulations....you have reach 1000 big ones!!!!! Yeh!!! :bounce :party :beer

Is anyone else having trouble with the site....I have the weirdest page up at the moment and NO smilies .... gotta remember long hand :duh

squizy 路

Yeah site is all over the place. Took me ages to get back in. Looks like something is awry, or where about to have another meltdown. BEB posted too much today and killed the server. I'm off to snooze.

ColumBUS 路

ive already posted my confessions here!

jenz58 路

Would you like to repeat them for us....here??? In detail :P

bugeyedbabe 路

I'M BACKKKKKKKKK!

i gave up trying to get back in last night....

went off to sleep ready to post some big ones again..:P

bugeyedbabe 路

nad yes kikko, confess again..


i already know what they were, my heart goes out to you....my dad was like ur mum in his earlier years, and by the time he came good, all the damage was done....

so i send u a big hug....just keep ya head out my chest..

littlebugga 路

what, no pillow? its supposed to be soothing listening to a womans heart beat

littlebugga 路

how to stir the pot... hmmm
3 things, some maybe true, some not...

1. i have an addiction
2. i m in the latest edition of picture
3. i m missing half a toe
........................................................

bugeyedbabe 路

uh huh...did ya daddy tell ya that?? or another male perhaps??

besides, here in mine, he'd die of suffocation...the pups are way to big for such a little boy..

Herbie 路

1. I like Scuba diving from High Altitudes.
2. I think Drag racing is dangerous, you might trip over in the high heels and hurt your leg.
3. "E" hit the nail on the head, Why dont people stop and ask "Why",
I walk a very rocky path because I ask why instead of following the person in front of me, my life is much less boring for it and it sickens me to watch people just do what they did yesterday and the day before instead of asking, Why do I do this? What would I prefer to do? how can I achieve what I need and still do what I want?
What do I really need?
What do I really want?
What is really important in the grand scheme of things?
what stops me doing what I enjoy?
What stops me enjoying the things I find myself having to do?
how can I effect this experience?
How can I effect other peoples experience of life?
If I knew that my Death was to come at 5 pm this afternoon, How would I live the rest of my Life?
If I knew My Death was to come tomorrow, How would I live the rest of my life?
If I knew My Death was to come next easter, how would I live the rest of my life?
If I knew My Death was to come in 2010, how would I live the rest of my life?
What makes me think that I wont die at 5 pm or tomorrow or next easter or 2010?
What would I want to have experienced before I die?
what am I going to do to achieve these experiences?
Will I allow myself to have regrets about my life when I am old?
will I ever be old?
Am I already Old?
What is Old?
Who is old?
Do Old people have more to offer upon communication?
Why do we communicate differently with Old people to New people?
Does someone reading this find the use of the term "New People" strange?
Why Does anyone think its strange?
Is it actually Stange?
What does Strange mean?
Would I have been better off reading something instead of writing this?
How does what I write effect someone who reads it?
Who Reads it?
Who Thinks I'm off the Planet?
Does it really matter what they think?
how do I escape the prison of not being able to do what you want without being arrested for no proper reason, Like If I am happy to move around naked in public and not be concerned about people seeing all of my body, why will I be arressted?
Why does it offend other people whom seem able to deal with seeing every other creature in the world naked without getting offended?
Are they actually offended?
Are they Scared of someone who does things differently?
Why are they Scared?
Do they just complain because its the most exciting thing they can do with their life at that excact moment?
Why do I have to accept the things that other percieve as unchangeable?
Have I spent too much time writing on Aussieveedubbers today and should I get on with other things that I need to do in My life, in case I die at 5 PM because no matter when I die, I will no doubt die one day and best to have the least amount of regrets as possible when I do.

Yes.

bugeyedbabe 路

who thinks herbie thinks to much??

and the cops stop me doing what i wanna do most times...:P

oooo, ya know i secretly love u :kiss

bugeyedbabe 路

i have addiction to...it's AVD...omg im mod again..

i have 'yum' toes...9don't ask)

and i wish i was in picture...but they'd need like 6 pages, and that's just for my butt.

pyr0 路

parra bunge jumping.

you get on a boat that has a tandem chair hooked up to the parra sailing rig, once the boats going fast enough they launch the parrashoot, then the take you up 500 meters !!!!!!!!!!

yes i said 500. (the other jump master has like a watch they wear sky diving to let u know when you are 500 meters up)

then you have to undo YOUR OWN seat belt so you can jump.


the drop varies onb how far you wanna go 馃槈 when i jumped i missed the water by less than a meter :thumb or so everyone told me..........i was spewin cause i wanted to touch the water 馃槈


so thats how it works 馃槈

jenz58 路

OMG herbie...what can I say....let it all out...as you did....lol 馃槑

bugeyedbabe 路

hello jenz..

missed u so much...what a sad life i have

jenz58 路

...I was dying to come on...was out last night...no news 馃檨 lol

Well....I could go onto that other site n tell all 馃槈 馃槈

bugeyedbabe 路

just u2u me the number ok..馃槈

jenz58 路

OK lol

It's a good one

bugeyedbabe 路

thats cool....mine went forever and ever...but that was only casue i was talking about andrew...and....:blah

never mind...馃檪

bugeyedbabe 路

has anyoen notice...andrew still hasn't confessed to us what it was....

he starts this thread....and then walks away...

jenz58 路

I know...that's way I keep saying he's teasing us...he wanted to know how easy we found that site to use....it looked very similar to what we had for a short while the other night...we are his guinea pigs...

bugeyedbabe 路

i know...

he makes me cry the way he teases us

:cry

jenz58 路

Honestly there were too many confessions to go therough and they all started sounding the same.....didn't know if I went to a new page or not...

We should look at the most repeated confession....having the hots for a co-worker... cheating or thinking of it....wanking over co-workers, partners of friends, or complete strangers...SPOOFING in socks and putting them in the laundry basket...lol

It seems sex is our biggest guilt... :duh

vanderaj 路

It's certainly the Americans' biggest topic of confession 馃檪

There are some very sad and lonely confessions there as well, including some suicidal ones, and the occasional actual sin from the other six or so, so it's not all about sex. But I admit you must work at it to find them.

Luckily for me, I haven't been able to find my old confessions using its search engine. And I told Bugeyedbabe about the content of most of them the other night when she begged me to tell her 馃檪

Andrew

jenz58 路

So bugeyedbabe KNOWS the true confessions....

OKI vill start driving now....the old torture method vill be the best for quiKKKK results....

A few surVival rations and I'm off!!:bounce:bounce HAHAHAHAHA!!! (chuckled in a VERY demented, menacing way)馃榾

jenz58 路

Hmmm...maybe I only searched using sexually orientated words being the warped person that I am...

OK I do a search for ..KNITTING socks to spoof in....COOKING yummy goodies to smear over body....GARDENING naked while the neighbour peeps.... KNOTTING to hold...

Andrew...do I need a name change?? :blush

So lucky no one reads this thread ...it's like a private diary for us few :beer

buzzbug 路

1. I parachute/skydive for a living and i am afraid of heights. 馃榾
2. I am the most domesticated male i know (i do all the house work).
3. I have really piss poor dress sence.馃槧

Lee.

not that deep, but they are three things you didn't know.

jenz58 路

OK I'm so afraid of heights but would love to skydive...it is weird...

Went up in a ballooon once...was so nervous at first...but once up I didn't want to come down...it was so amazing up above the hills, fields and mist... looking down and drifting alone silently :kiss

I can go in planes not a problem....luv take off n I still get excited looking out the window...I'll never grow up 馃榾

bugeyedbabe 路

pls, if u grow up, then i'd have to just so we could keep talk...

and i refuse to grow up...grow out..yes! grow up...no!

besides, it's the only way i can communicate with my family....let me get the crayons and draw u a picture okay??

jenz58 路

lol...grow up NEVER......we can go on talking n talking n talking .... and you not have to change

Peter Pan is my hero :kiss

My favourite people are eccentrics....they don't care if they are different...it's so cool :tree

....two more confessions :thumb



[Edited on 11-3-2005 by jenz58]

vern74 路

1.I too have piss poor dress sense.....apparently
2.Have problems with brushing my hair
3. If other people smell .......I tell them, I can't stand body odor or unironed clothes for that matter

jenz58 路

....hmmmmm luckily I shower BUT my kids have trained me to wash n wear...I just don't throw my CLEAN clothes on the floor and walk over them ...argh....that's when I realised the futility of ironing :sandrine

vern74 路

Yeah
I could be a little on the anal side.........way over that side
Always make sure my girls have
Brushed hair
Ironed clothes
and smell good before we leave the house

squizy 路

So who are the people we admire....our hero's?? Not including my parents, who without saying, even through tough times, have always been there. Defining principles within us all to carry on.

I admire Lance Armstrong for his ability to overcome all obstacles and become the legend he is. Whilst I'm not a cyclist, I recognise those achievements.

jenz58 路

Do you line them up for inspection?? 馃榾

I'm teasing....but do you???

My kids did all that....just not ironed clothes once they hit the teens.....no point if they were going to get thrown on the floor and walked over...

Well maybe not brushed hair always for the boyz....or shaved fully (facial) ...the just got out of bed, threw some clothes off the floor on ..stubble look....BUT they did shower and clean their teeth

Confession...I became a slack mother ... if you can't beat them join them...they wore me down damn them :vader

[Edited on 11-3-2005 by jenz58]

bugeyedbabe 路

i found that new iron free...

but i'm not sure they meant for me to use it as i was leaving the house...

clothes on, spray, flatten out, go!!

lol

and yes, after having family i once ironed for, and noticing that they never quite made it to the cupboards...what si the point...so now i look good, they look daggy!

and I NEVER plan to grow up..

2nite my partner and i grabbed some things from coles...we had our baby with us...they grabbed aballoon, starting playing toss the balloon, then we ended up playing it....and then the two race off playing 'skids' with the trolley...

thankfully the supermarket was empty, except for a few people who were laughing with us (i'm sure it was at us, but who cares) because my son was just cracking up with the biggest belly laughs..

i love that sound...

bugeyedbabe 路

oh...here some trips down memory lane for u jenz....

the smell of of a baby after they had a bath, with UR favorite bubble bath. they tipped the whoel thing in, and insist u join the in a game of santas beard., having tipped the whole thing in....smiling and playing santa's beard.

when their really cranky, and the only thing they want to do is cuddle up to you, and have u hold them while they sleep. Smelling em and smiling...even when their stinky.

or when they crawl into your lap, and hold your head in their hands whilst they try to kiss you...even though their face may be covered in their latest food...and u know u have to do it, because they won't go away until u have.

the best part for me is everytime my son has one of these moments with me, i get to relive another i had...ohh abotu 10 - 15 years earlier.

bugeyedbabe 路

and yes, I became a slack mother too...when they become teenagers, they just wear u down...

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Oh please stop the baby snifing stories....you're going to get me bawling. My daugher has her own smell, and when she's not with me and I'm feeling down I'll sniff her pillow and bring her back.

bugeyedbabe 路

i do that when my daughters at school...and she's 12...so don't panic it never goes....I have my partners favorite aftershave for when he goes away...and I can always roll over and smell his pillow...

my mum has my late brothers pillow...and she keeps a can of his deodorant around....he was the baby of the family...

my sister has her sons deodorant....when he goes on camp, and he's 15yo

jenz58 路

Oh...I luv that....such a sweet smell....

We had them all in bed with us when babies...so much easier when breast feeding...they just latch on....Breast fed for 8 years straight no break between bubs....loved it...nothing nicer than a snuggly bub

Hmmmm the boyz are boobs men now??

Well was into alternatives...but not feral ....great when kids little...sitting around with other mums...talking n breast feeding and kids running around..doesn't seem that long ago when I think about it...it's all very fresh... nice

It must be nice having another bub... they are precious

bugeyedbabe 路

guess what my son just did...

he's was still awake (had a 4 hours sleep today, so i knew it would be a late one tonight)

i had bought up his old car seat, which i cleaned for a friend who is hving her baby in about 8 weeks....son spied it, put himself in, got me to do up the belt, and then promptly feel asleep in it..

but his bottle keeps falling out, whch he then puts back in...

i love that part....watching him search for his bottle..

yesterday in his afternoon nap, he forgot he didn't have a bottle, and kept searching (eyes closed) until he put his hand in his cerel cup....

...I gave him cerel in a cap, so he can walk around with it between tea times...don't panic it's only cornflakes...he hates the sugery ones....they're only good for stamping on or driving his scooter thru (his sister is NOT happy with him)

bugeyedbabe 路

he is a handful, but i get time to laugh alot more...

this time around we earnt enogh for me to be a stay at home mum.

bugeyedbabe 路

but liek the bub, i now have to say goodnight to u all...

I have to make a trip to the airport in about 5.5 hours...helps if I can stay awake - I hear....

see u all tomorrow...

kisses goodnight for u and urs

and Jenz...make a milo for me 馃檪

jenz58 路

OK milo coming up....I've gotta a red...:beer

What after midnight again??!!! Can't believe it...

I was a stay at home mum for about ten years...worked weekend shifts if we needed money....once Bridie the youngest hit school then I went back to work...it was a very creative and fun time...we have lots of fun adventures

jenz58 路

This is becoming a parenting club (being politically correct here)....we need to start a new thread for it...I'm sure it would be a goer ...lots of parents on here

My chicks have all flown the nest.... I'm at the total freedom stage...except that I have to work to pay for the freedom...a bit of a cycle happening

bugeyedbabe 路

aaarrr yes...freedom...i'm kinda looking forward to it...

except now i'll be about 60 before i get to experience it...

:cry

pyr0 路

ever considered ebay :P

joking of course.........


come on, all the parents out there should be laughing, thats what funniest home video's are for they pay you just to show the video, you dont even have to win. 馃槈 i know theres a few around on our tapes we should send in

bugeyedbabe 路

yes i know...

but the kids refuse to let me...darned kids and their opinions...

bugeyedbabe 路

stupid UN about respecting kids right to not being humilated on national tv....

pyr0 路

meh your the parent............just dont tell them LMAO

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1 I can play the Piano.

2 I was a Section one Tennis Player.

3 I never got less then A for maths at School, and I never got less then B for English.


Now I'm a Truck Driving Bogan. But I'm really Rich. :thumb

jenz58 路

...I didn't know you could play the piano...?? 馃槑

How's the fam going? Has that son of yours taken over the workshop yet?

bugeyedbabe 路

i'm back

jenz58 路

....GOOD....wondered when you'd get here....things have been a bit slow...

Hmmmm...may have shocked one or two people......lol

frenzix 路

bugeyedbabe 路

only way to go thru life...doing the unexpected..

bugeyedbabe 路

and why is foxy so upset???

jenz58 路

I didn't know she was....she was having trouble posting her pics up...and I offered to help....but I wasn't much help in the end....had trouble getting the resized pics up....which was happening to her....weird

yes frenzix? Goodness that look makes me uneasy....what is on his mind

bugeyedbabe 路

posted andwer in another thread...u'll see it

jenz58 路

I got all mixed up.....read back to top of thread...and oops...I was wondering what you were on about lol

jenz58 路

Well after me crashing in like that...the subject will be closed....they gave up :thumb

bugeyedbabe 路

lol..wanna go 2 chat

bugeyedbabe 路

what the??

I can't get into chat

jenz58 路

I'm off to bed..nite....gunna take Bel for a long run tomorrow down to a beach in Gippsland somewhere....roof open and just drive until we feel like stopping...I want to swim so bad...summers nearly over down here

Catch you tomorrow night .... enjoy those baby smells...mmmmmm 馃檪

DIY-DUB 路

1. i hated vw's with a passion b4 i drove one
2. um, im a lesbain myself
3. Im the most boring person u will ever meet, but im friendly so ost ppl dont care

bugeyedbabe 路

a boring lesbian whose friendly....hmmmm:duh

bugeyedbabe 路

well that would explain my attraction to u...and kinkos too...:P

jenz58 路

....yes but what about Andrew......you'll have HIM interested now too

Hey...I have a couple of gay friends...so much fun to go out with...very cheeky men and safe to be with...except when they admit they could turn....and get excited by OPEN conversations :jesus

DIY-DUB 路

jenz i think ur missing my point behind the lesbain thing

bugeyedbabe 路

there was a point...i think he's saying hes a lesbian cause he likes girls...

ColumBUS 路

lesbians love the ladies... im a lesbian too!

hmm heres my three things you didnt know about me

1. if i cant make one person smile every day, i havent done my job.

2. im moving out of home because my mother is an alcoholic and my father is too scared to divorce her.

3. i am obsessive about shakespeare, and not just the remakes of his plays like 10 things i hate about you. i have shakes speare quotes and plays all over my walls.

DIY-DUB 路

bugeyed, the more the better, well no id feel guilty about that, ill settle for one good 1

bugeyedbabe 路

ha...one good girl...lol...u'd better find aother forum...all girls here are slightly left of center...

bugeyedbabe 路

jenz do u agree...all girls here are a little crazy??

ColumBUS 路

crazy girls are so much better than camden skanks, trust me!

jenz58 路

Wow...kikko....they are things we didn't know

Shakespeare is pretty cool...I can relate to a lot of his plays...Comedy of Errors.... is one maybe it's the title lol

I think a lot of young one can still enjoy the plays...the Bell Shakespearian company is so good...they bring it up to date with some great sets and costumes...

Good luck with the move...can't be nice in what sounds like could be an unhappy home at times...

It can be hard for your dad....the financial fears and fear of loosing you kids can be big...plus he could still love your mum and thinks he's helping her....I don't know...only he does...

Smiles are good....so nice to do 馃檪

jenz58 路

....bugeyed...I know we are left of centre....but so many girls are so uptight and boringly conservative it's not funny...like so many guys I guess...they get together and have boring lives but happy one I guess if they are happy that way

ME I've go around the twist big time....climb the walls with frustration...you can still be sensible when needed which is not that often....challenging ideas...that's what I like

Mind you I do need my quiet time to recooperate:thumb

Confession....1(again) I can get very deep at times....luv philosophy ..... then I need help to get out and fancy free again...nah....I drive myself out most time...enough of this serious thought Jen be an idiot

and 2. (to follow) Yes I do talk to myself 馃榾

3.(none....the sun is shining)

ColumBUS 路

mmmm some of my favourites are othello, much ado about nothing, the taming of the shrew, the tragedy of king lear, and a midsummer nights dream. his sonnets are amazing, they make me cry.

in year 12 we were asked to rewrite king lear interpreted in a different style of theatre (not the whole thing... thats insane!). i did mine with an abusrdist/theatre of cruelty twist... i was sent to the counsellor
'were you breastfed? did your mother spank you in your youth? do you need a hug?'

damn freudians...

bugeyedbabe 路

lol...kikko, they had their eye on u for a while...the play thing was all a ruse..

they, girls can be uptight, but each to his own....

i need to be compared to someone, and the uptight ones occassionally make me look cool...馃槑

more confessions
1. I once won the weirest aunt contest at newphew school...and i was proud of it....I won it hands down when I yelled out to one of the kids on stage inthe middle of the school concert (their act had ended...aqnd it wasn't my newphews act either...)
2. I love NOT being normal...
3. No three...suns shining here too...

ColumBUS 路

1. i hold the record for most counselling sessions for assessments or reports at elderslie high school... 8. im not a psycho, i just love to make people think twice.

2. i was voted class clown, most unusual, most outgoing funniest guy, best nickname, and most likely to end up insane at school.

3. i have never told the truth as to what i got for my uai... keeps people guessing

pyr0 路

how bout what we are affraid of, i think im the only one who mentioned it 馃檨 and other people who agree'd to my one :alien

incase no one saw it im affraid of the dark when alone, but its actually scares me to a point where its like a mini rush 馃槈

ColumBUS 路

hahah pyro... look out for the texas chainsaw massacre man hes in the back of ur kombi!!!

me? im afraid of two things... im afraid of ending up dying a cranky old lonely man, and frogs.

pyr0 路

dude that story freaked me so bad specially when u stopped and pointed in the back of my van :jesus

ColumBUS 路

mwahahaha good times man. we need to do that again sometime

bugeyedbabe 路

can we take pyro camping somewhere and leave him alone in the middle of the dark...mwahahaha

but pyr0 didn't u love the addrenaline rush...me, i'm just scared of he dark...full stop...no rush

pyr0 路

yeh but the rush from the dark just isnt enough :alien

pod 路

i think i might go catch some frogs and put them in kikko whilst at our next club meeting:thumb then they will croak as fish is driving home馃槈

bugeyedbabe 路

what if we add kikko in a mask with a chain saw???

pyr0 路

ok camping sounded fun before but now it just sounds twisted :o

ColumBUS 路

lol good luck seeing me at the next meeting pod!
flat four would lose a member if you put a frog in my car

bugeyedbabe 路

will need to remember that for later...package forkikko package for kikko...

he takes package, it croaks...eeeckkkk

lol

sorry, i hate te way the feel...i love the way they look, just hate the way they stick to ur hands...

ColumBUS 路

my friend holly has stone steps which leads out to her shack, the last one is shaped like a frog... i jump over it.

my ex girly jess had a dried up frog oin her windowsill, when i noticed it (when i was sitting right next to it) i hid on the other side of the house and couldnt sleep all night. its nasty

ColumBUS 路

and dont forget bugeyedbabe ur gettin a phone call soon...

hello? yes i want to know why u come to my house and kick my dog!

bugeyedbabe 路

so long as it's not the heavy breathing again...u know it took me ages to work out it was u...

馃榾

ColumBUS 路

you loved it all the same :birthday

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah i did...but only ...well...ur just such a tease u playa u...

bugeyedbabe 路

:P

ColumBUS 路

its my soothing voice... like fraser crane

ColumBUS 路

or kamal...

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1. im the year 2000 i moved interstate twice.. one with family, (to tasmania) and then 6 months later with my family while my dad was at work, my mum and i planned it, without my bro's and sis knowing, so they wouldnt spill the beans - they were very young. - among many other things he kicked my pet cat into a brick wall. he came home to an empty house. this still makes me cry today.

2. im still with my first kiss 3 years on(happily).

3. after the year 2000 i prettymuch became my siblings father i guess (nothing gross :P ), just i had to be more grown up for their sake.. still do really...


4. i get on better with my old man now than i ever did while living with him. and my mum is happy now too.

bugeyedbabe 路

lol...
hey kikko I always wanted to ask the doctors this...

if my anger is because i was breatfeed as a child, whats the treatment...getting breastfeed as an adult....

didn't think theyd be to happy...

besides my gp and i have a funny relationship already....

i went to him once with a unique problems...once he diagnosed it he cracked over laughing, so hard he had tears...he actually had to leave room....

one night i'll tell ya about it...wait until i have a severe lack of sleep, that's when i confess the worst

ColumBUS 路

laughter is the best medicine

you probably already know this, but

4. i hardly ever sleep, maximum 4 hours a night, only sleep more if drinking. its why i started the late night dubbers club.

so ill be waiting donna... waiting and watching

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah yeah...

at least nwo i know whos throwing up outside my house...

and could ya stop aking ppl passing if that 'thing' in the house is human...it hurts ya know...it really does...馃檨

ColumBUS 路

a small child came up to me and whispered in my ear as i was outside ur window
*whisper whisper*

all i could do was laugh and say 'of course not boy, it doesnt have a trunk!'

luv ya!

bugeyedbabe 路

but beware the opening, cause....well we've never seen ppl exit...

ColumBUS 路

woah, theres sweet chilli sauce in this room!

bugeyedbabe 路

what ya doing with the sauce man...put that thing down...rite now!

DIY-DUB 路

what hapened 2 the confessions in this topic? all i se is conversation, i got no. 4 but
4. 25/02/05 was the worst day in my life, completely changed me, will never be the same again probably

bugeyedbabe 路

yeah...tends to confessions..convo about the confessions..ppl admitting they ahev same...then mroe confessions...

pyr0 路

just roll with it they get there eventually 馃槈

bugeyedbabe 路

the thread was actually supposed to be 'just three thinsg u didn't know abotu ME...ME guys...not YOu..ME

:P

bugeyedbabe 路

guess what...i am exactly like this in real life....i really really am.....

jenz58 路

Damien...that was a big move your family made...a big very big and brave step.....so glad this have worked out OK with your dad...that so good...

Unfortunately the older of the kids does end up carrying a lot of responsibility at time...it can make you strong but yes something you feel you could have done without maybe at times especially when you think your friends are having fun times ...

So did you go in the girlfriends car today... 馃榾

I stayed at home being very lazy...nice

ColumBUS 路

confessions are good for the soul. so if cheesy pasta!

mmm cheesy pasta....

bugeyedbabe 路

cheesy pasts where?? i want some

DIY-DUB 路

nos 5 & 6:
5. apparently im a good listener
6. kids seem 2 like me, i dont now y but they do, i dont really like them, guess its like cats, if u like em they go away, if u h8 em they hang around 2 annoy u

[Edited on 14/3/2005 by 1stcarbug]

bugeyedbabe 路

i got a friend in icq giving me shit abotu my age...what should i do????

thinking handcuffs....and this time not furry ones...

ColumBUS 路

6. 1stcarbug is very clever and tough, knows how to survive in any situation, and i dont mean like a cockroach either

DIY-DUB 路

kikko i neva realised how much u cared

[Edited on 17/3/2005 by 1stcarbug]

bugeyedbabe 路

alright...dude called me old..and CRAZY..me CRAZY..never...where'd i leave my whip!

Herbie 路

Repeat after me,
My Name is Bugeyedbabe and I'm a postaholic!:thumb

12 simple steps

bugeyedbabe 路

ya can't make me do it, and ya know it...

finally...a male nearer to my age....

bugeyedbabe 路

HELLO HERBIE...HOW YA GOING SWEETIE...

Herbie 路

Still sleeping in my Chev

bugeyedbabe 路

ohhh the young un is just digging the hole deeper and deeper...

bugeyedbabe 路

how is the new digs....

bugeyedbabe 路

wher is that whip...jenz...have u got the whip???