Read this, its an article based on three cam profile trials with turbo (stock, mild, wild). not vw but the theories are the same.
http://www.carcraft.com/techarticles/ccrp_1209_the_turbo_cam_shootout/viewall.html
Your stock cam can be used, overlap not an issue.
non-CW crank not an issue at low rpm, only a problem with eccentricity at high rpm.
Thus, if small turbo, spool comes on early (thus boost early), power band is down low which compliments your stock cam shaft and keeps the rpms at a safe range.
Low psi like what you have suggested that will suit cast internals for 1600cc, for a 2ltr i can't tell you whether it would survive or not. I'll let the pros make the call.
Extra heat is inevitable. This is heat at the heads, not in the oil (and thus additional oil coolers won't do much to assist). Doghouse cooler setup will keep typical hot spot #3 cylinder cool with improved air flow, ensuring good fuel mixture will keep temps down. Also ensure dissy timing is strictly limited in boost to prevent detonation/pinking and make sure all tinwear is present. CBperformance have a distributor you can tune for that applicable with changing springs for mechanical advance.
great thing about turbo's is you are only on boost when you want to be (IE: when you have your foot down and your at the rpms suitable for spooling) So its not like you will be boosting all the time and building up extra heat during your drive, unless you are racing).