bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve
3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 ·
I think u got it right.
No matter what we do, the thing is this. We have to first teach respect for each other. That one persons RIGHTS finishes when another persons begins.
So they may have the right to drive fast, but only when it is safe for everyoen ELSE. not just themselves.
Governing the cars won't work, because they will just borrow mums or dads, or a friends. It may even have the effect of the hoons stealing cars, just to drive them fast. Lets face it, if they were worried about the consequences of the LAW, would they be street racing etc anyway?
And you can't blame mum and dad all the time. The rights of the child outweight the right of a parent to discipline. The family groups say u shouldn't smack, raise ur voice, etc. Now I've heard u can't even suggest to the child that they are being lazy. Even if they are. now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they should belt their child, and yes they can smack they child...but the problem is what someone considers an appropriate situation to smack a child is not necessarily everyones idea as well. And if the person disagreeing with u is in DOCS....oh well, u lose ur child. What's worst is the kids know tis, and I've seen a number use it.
So if governments want parents to take resonsiblity, then cut them slack.
As for curfews...well that used to be in place in soem places, but the kids just sneaked out.
Teaching them driver training....hmmm...this well teach them more how to get out of trouble. Shouldn't we be teaching FIRST why they shouldn't be doing thinsg to get into trouble.
Don't speed rather than how to get out of trouble when u are speeding??
I thnk what is needed is soem dramatic hands on, met people who did course.
Teach them compassion, empathy, and consquences. Let them meet the people and victims of these accidents. I bet these heaps of peple who would volunteer.
Not just the drivers who were injured, but also the family members left of behind those killed by others stupidity. Mothers who now have to work, rather than raise their kids, because dad got killed ont he way home. The kids whose mum got killed. The drivers who thought it could never happen to them. Stick the kids in a wheel chair for a day.
A two day weekend of really intensive emotional shit.....Something they will remember EVERY time they get behind the wheel.
But it also needs to be a community thing.
Don't let anyone behind the wheel drunk. Don't let them in the car if they are angry. Don't go to any street races unless ur there to stop it, call the police etc. ONLY go to legal drag ones.
I know it is a shit, but man, I don't want to attend the funerals of anymore relatives.
That's me off the soap box for now.
Cheers
d4
🥷 And who the helled parked the Mitsubishi "Prancer" under my house??? 🥷