http://www.autronic.com/
http://www.electromotive-inc.com/
http://www.jenvey.co.uk/
http://www.kalmaker.com.au/
http://www.link-electro.co.nz/home.html
http://www.bgsoflex.com/megasquirt.html
http://www.redlineweber.com/
http://www.sdsefi.com/
http://www.haltech.com.au/
http://www.wolfems.com.au/home
http://www.enginemanagementsystem.com/HomePage.htm
Here are just some of the sites that sell aftermarket ECUs. As far as "kits" for VWs there is generally only 2:
Jenvy, and
http://www.cbperformance.com/category.asp?categoryid=5
Neither of these kits use a single throttle body. It is widely accepted that for a street car a single TB design is far better than any quad TB design (look similar to twin carbies). And the CBPerformance ECU is petty prehistoric.
There is a good EFI forum here
http://www.shoptalkforums.com/viewforum.php?f=23&sid=769d8266a1fb98c56f757ae124f37ff2
There you will find all sorts of really good info. such as designing your plenum and runners. Some believe that the quad TB is a better way to go. Read, read and read and learn heaps as you go along.
There are a couple of really good threads here about home-made EFI systems, using mostly 2nd hand stuff off Holden Camiras of all things! Do a search and you'll find them.