Three things you didn\'t know about me

vanderaj · 2005-03-08T12:47:49+00:00

I hang out on various forums. This thread came from one of them. Try to find it! 🙂 An easter egg to the person who finds the correct forum (this thread topic is pretty common in Google) 1. I have quite bad insomnia, and often do with as little as three (or less) hours sleep a day. 2. I have posted many confessions to http://grouphug.us. I can't stop. 3. I am a terrible procrastinator. I don't know anyone is quite as good at procrastination as me. What are your three things? Andrew [Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:18 am

#313842

Are you trying to write a paper at the moment Andrew?

vanderaj Administrator a suffusion of yellow

3,130 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:20 am

#313843

Yeah, how did you guess? I'm writing the OWASP Guide to writing secure web applications 2.0

But this is just a thread has incredible legs on the forum I found it. 🙂

Andrew

squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:22 am

#313845

ok....

1. I lost my Dad in 2003 to Mesothelioma. Since then I've lacked career motivation and have stagnated.
2. My ex-wife makes I life hell. I wish she would go there.
3. I love my new wife, life and my family more than anything you can describe.

vanderaj Administrator a suffusion of yellow

3,130 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:22 am

#313846

bugeyedbabe wrote:okay..for real..

Wow, compared to mine, your 3 things are in a totally different league than mine. I hope things get better (or are better) for you soon.

Andrew

jenz58 Postal Menace

9,121 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:22 am

#313847

*big hug*

That's terrible....did you get your daughter back ..I would die...our kids are so precious ...

I was the one with my father when he died as well....I loved dad but my parents never saw who I was...or were too frighten to...could only ever tall me what they thought I should be doing...not look at my abilities and encourage me....Think it was a generation thing but it used to hurt not to be recognised for the person you are...Emotional blackmail was used as a lot of people do...but I was always too frightened to rebel...Dad was unconsious but I sat there and spoke to him hoping he could hear me

"All you need is trust and a little bit of pixie dust!"

http://forums.aussieveedubbers.com/viewtopic.php?tid=22473
http://forums.aussieveedubbers.com/viewtopic.php?tid=56558#pid535643

...so I don't loose the links to my rides again hehehe

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:24 am

#313848

i tried andrew....but darn...tehir were so many strange ppl named andrew

dubless. 🥲
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squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:27 am

#313849

Are you 930302074?....trying to write a paper at the moment but spending too much time playing internet games?

vanderaj Administrator a suffusion of yellow

3,130 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:30 am

#313850

nah, I don't play games that much. My XBox was last used around April 2003.

If I'm bored and there's nothing on the Tivo to watch, I write standards, like the OWASP stuff, or the software that runs this place. Alternatively, I make the rounds of VW and Citroen websites, slashdot, and so on and stir up trouble.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:31 am

#313852

squizy trying having ur ex kidnap ur kids..

but u know what guys...those thinsg really aren't the worst...

BUT there are so many other great things that have happened in my life.

I've had some wonderful guys enter into my life, and I remain friends with them. My girlfriends are loyal to me, and stay forever. I have a great partner. My daughter is back, and now understands why i left her dad and appreciates her life here. My eldest son is good, my youngest cracks me up and much as he frustrates me ..

My dad and I made peace, so i will never be saying ...i wish..

So in everything that is bad, u have to look for good.

daughter kidnapped, but otherwise not harmed.
had cancer, but fought and won
was attacked but not killed

see...everything bad has something positive...

now back to andrew

dubless. 🥲
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squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:33 am

#313853

I have another confession....I'm not an insomniac and have to go to bed. No doubt my little man will call during the night.

squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:36 am

#313854

I couldn't even think how hard it would be to have your daughter kidnapped. That would be awful.

The closest I've come is the shitty custody case from last year - which in some respects has the same result. I still don't see my daughter enough and it kills me inside.

Think I'll delete some stuff in the morning.

jenz58 Postal Menace

9,121 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:38 am

#313855

...things do turn around...that's a lot to happen...kinda like me...

Sometimes I don't think I've moved very far since my husband died nearly 3 yrs ago...it takes someone outside, who maybe has been through it, to say to me that I have done a lot and achieved a lot in a short time...to me it feels like forever

Definitely have positive people around you helps so much...and being able to laugh

"All you need is trust and a little bit of pixie dust!"

http://forums.aussieveedubbers.com/viewtopic.php?tid=22473
http://forums.aussieveedubbers.com/viewtopic.php?tid=56558#pid535643

...so I don't loose the links to my rides again hehehe

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:39 am

#313856

yeah well, i have fought him, and a crap system, adn finally getting somewhere.

the order u got, it aint worth shit...did they tell u that..

mine took my daughter, i had an order, and i still had to wait 4 weeks to get her back....they knew where she was...but he just kept delaying the whole process...i got a crap judge, and the afp officer was no better.

but anyway, i'm sure one day i can tell u all about it.

dubless. 🥲
🥷 And who the helled parked the Mitsubishi "Prancer" under my house??? 🥷

squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:40 am

#313857

That one paragraph Jen makes me look at you in a whole different light. You are a champion. My sister was in the same boat 3 years ago.....

squizy Thinking about another dub...maybe

4,082 posts · joined Dec 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:42 am

#313858

It sure is a crap system. Would be good to chat one day about it all.

Back to Andrew....have you guys tried typing in VW in the search field?

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:43 am

#313859

That how it is jenz...and don't worry abotu not acheiving alot anyway...sometimes it is enough just to breathe thru the day...

must be hard to have lost ur husband...

worst period was a few years back, everything hit. we lost 5 family members in 12 months...I seperated from husband, miscarried, changed jobs, was stalked, lived interstate (so I was alone)

it was horrible. I hope never to ever experience anything like it again.

dubless. 🥲
🥷 And who the helled parked the Mitsubishi "Prancer" under my house??? 🥷

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:43 am

#313860

hey andrew, each time u confess, does it give u a new number??

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:46 am

#313861

if it does...i think i found u...

dubless. 🥲
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vanderaj Administrator a suffusion of yellow

3,130 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:48 am

#313863

have you guys tried typing in VW in the search field?

no I haven't. My favorite search term is "lesbian".

Andrew

[Edited on 8-3-2005 by vanderaj]

vanderaj Administrator a suffusion of yellow

3,130 posts · joined Aug 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:50 am

#313864

bugeyedbabe wrote:hey andrew, each time u confess, does it give u a new number??

Yes. It hangs around forever with that number - it's all yours! 🙂

When I first started confessing, there were no comments.

Andrew

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 12:54 am

#313865

if i got it rite would u tell me anyway???

seriously

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:09 am

#313869

hey, i'm almost at 600 posts

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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:10 am

#313870

ya never gonna tell me if i'm rite hey andrew

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:10 am

#313871

soon i'm gonna go to sleep and wonder and i'll be wondering

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:11 am

#313872

and tossing and turning and wondering some more

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:11 am

#313874

yeah 600 posts

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:12 am

#313875

and 155 for 2day

dubless. 🥲
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Herbie 53 Bugs are not nearly enough

764 posts · joined Sep 2002 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:13 am

#313877

I couldnt imagine releasing my confessions,
People would know what a deviate I am.:P

62 Ragtop Herbie with a little extra oomph.

bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:15 am

#313878

herbie..

we DO know what a deviate u r

dubless. 🥲
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bugeyedbabe Wheres her VW heart on her sleeve

3,945 posts · joined Jan 2005 · 9 Mar 2005, 1:15 am

#313879

hey, if i had a spare motor, how much would u pay for it??

dubless. 🥲
🥷 And who the helled parked the Mitsubishi "Prancer" under my house??? 🥷